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02
Aug
july 2025,
Friendship is such a big beast of a joyous part of life.
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01
Aug
what else has me completely booked: july 2025
But for now, here's what else has been keeping me busy.
5 min read
02
Jul
june 2025, protests everywhere
My disclaimer, in case you missed it: I'm Black! I am Black and whit,e so yes, I am also white, but when I say "white people," I mean fully white people who don't have Black parents or any biologically Black family.
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30
Jun
what else has me completely booked
Here's what else has me completely booked, meaning everything occupying my time that isn't reading or listening to books.
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05
Jun
may 2025, i am not a mom
I hate to think of hurting anyone's feelings, the people who struggle with infertility, who want nothing more than to parent, or more specifically, to be a mom.
12 min read
25
May
you paid for this: menstrual cramps and the ibuprofen police
I asked for ibuprofen at the gynecologist the other day, and the medical assistant paused and then told me she'd either be back with some or the doc herself would give me some.
6 min read
06
May
april 2025, jojo's season
jess tholmer's april 2025 reads!
7 min read
01
Apr
March 2025, spring break and flying logs
Spring has sprung, and here's what Jess Tholmer read in March.
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21
Mar
you paid for this: celebrities and their podcasts
I'd feel wholly disheartened embarking on that journey now because who would listen to me over Meghan Markle or like, idk fucking Michelle Obama?
6 min read
04
Mar
February 2025, look, whatever
Headline inspired by nightmare retail customers via Lyndsey Frank, specifically my friend Nina's character.
@lyndseyisfrank
retail employees need
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